For separated & divorced parents

Say it once.
Say it calmly.

Between Us checks a message's tone before it sends, keeps one shared record neither of you can quietly edit, and gives each of you a private space to think things through — so conversations about your kids stay about your kids.

14-day trial, no card required. From £5/month, per person.
Before you send
"You ALWAYS do this. I'm done covering for your mistakes."
↓ tone check ↓
"Pickup ran late again — can we set a backup plan for next time?"
StormyCalm
How it works

Three steps, every time.

Nothing to configure — the same short loop for every message.

01

Write your message

Draft what you need to say about your child, the same way you always would.

02

Check the tone

See a plain read on how it will land, and a calmer rewrite, before anyone else sees it.

03

Send, on the record

It lands in one shared thread you both can always see — kept exactly as sent, permanently.

What's included

Everything lives in one place.

No separate apps for messaging, scheduling, evidence, and record-keeping — and every feature listed here is on every plan.

Talk it through, calmly

Tone check

Catch it before it sends

A quick, private read on how a message will land, with a calmer rewrite offered — you choose what actually gets sent.

Advice

A private coach, before you even type

Think through what you want to say with an AI communication coach — entirely private, never visible to your co-parent, never linked to the shared thread.

Messaging

A shared, permanent thread

Every message is visible to both parents and can never be edited or deleted once sent — a record you can both actually rely on.

Keep the record straight

Mediator summary

Weeks of messages, one page

Turn a long thread into a plain summary: what was discussed, what's agreed, and what's still open — with no side taken.

Incidents

A private log, kept as you go

Note things as they happen, in your own words, entirely private to you. Export it as a PDF if you ever need to show it to someone.

Court order import

Upload an order, review the dates, confirm

Upload your parenting schedule and get proposed calendar dates back — you review and confirm every single one before anything's added. Never automatic.

Export

A branded record when you need one

Turn a thread, a progress report, or your incident log into a PDF and email it to yourself, a lawyer, or a mediator, any time.

Built to be fair and secure

Billing

Everyone pays their own way

Subscriptions are per person, not per family — so no one parent can hold the bill over the other's access to their own child's record.

Security

Two-factor authentication

Add a code from an authenticator app on top of your password — your account, protected the way a shared family record deserves to be.

Privacy

Your private space stays private

Advice conversations and your incident log are yours alone — there's no setting, no admin, no path that makes them visible to your co-parent.

Calendar

One schedule, both parents

Pickup times, appointments, and changes — visible to both, with each parent signing in separately and managing what they've added.

Worth knowing

A plain record, not a legal one.

Between Us isn't a substitute for legal or clinical advice, and a thread on its own isn't a court filing. What it is: a calmer way to communicate day to day, and an honest, unedited record of what was actually said — if you ever need to show one. If you or your child are ever in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Pricing

Everyone pays for their own access.

On purpose — so no parent's subscription can ever become leverage over the other's access to their own child's record. Every feature above is on every plan; the only difference is how many family workspaces your own plan covers.

Basic
£5/month, per person
  • Tone check before you send
  • Private Advice coach
  • Shared, permanent message thread
  • Mediator summaries
  • Shared calendar
  • Private incident log
  • Court order import
  • Branded PDF exports & progress reports
  • Two-factor authentication
  • 1 family workspace
  • 14-day free trial
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Custom
£12.50/month, per person
  • Every feature — same as Basic and Plus
  • As many workspaces as you need
  • £2.50/month per workspace, same rate as Plus
  • 14-day free trial
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Know a parent who needs this?

You can cover their first month or year without linking your accounts. It's a real gift, redeemed with a code they enter themselves — not an ongoing link back to you.